By. Ran
When you meet that person, a person, one of your soul mates, let the connection, the relationship, be what it is. It may be five minutes, five hours, five days, five months, five years, a lifetime, five lifetimes. Let it manifest itself the way it is meant to be. It has an organic destiny. This way if it stays or if it leaves, you will be softer from having been loved this authentically. Souls come into, return, open and sweep through your life for a myriad of reasons. Let them be who and what they are meant to be.” ~ Nayyirah Waheed
There is one thing we are confused about when we are in a relationship. Is she/ he my soul mate?
If you ever find yourself in this situation, we can help. Here are 7 tell-tale signs that show you have found your soul mate.
#1. You cannot imagine a life without them.
Your future revolves around them. You cannot imagine living without them even for a day. Your happiness, sadness, excitement, everything is based on them. If you feel this way about your partner, then it is a sign that you have found the one. You have found your soul mate that you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with.
#2. You feel their pain as your own.
You empathize with them. Their pain becomes yours. In fact, there is nothing that bonds two people together stronger than pain. You can sympathize strongly and share each other’s pain. Sharing emotions is a great sign.
#3. You respect each other.
When you are with your soul mate you tell each other everything and most importantly you do not lose your individuality. You give them space and respect them. They do the same for you in return. Their acceptance is unconditional.
#4. You give them space.
You let them enjoy their life. You do not interfere with it all the time. This does not affect your relationship, in fact, this strengthens it.
#5. You never think about anyone else.
You don’t feel like stealing a look at the hottest girl or boy when you are with your soul mate. They are all you want. You understand that your relationship is worth protecting at all costs and that you are committed to one person.
#6. Your chemistry is undeniable.
It is there right from the start. You feel it as a spark, a flame. You are both extremely attracted to each other in every way and your attraction for each other is unending.
#7. You have never felt like this before.
Now you know the meaning of true love. You understand why no other relationship worked for you before. This is something unique, something that happens only once in a lifetime. And you realize this when you are with your soul mate.