Perhaps you might have looked at someone and thought, ‘wow, how strong he/she is’. In your eyes, that person might be the perfect person who manages everything smoothly and who gets the best out of his/her life. But, have you ever thought how difficult and hard that person’s life can be? Behind all those smiles there can be hidden worries and pains and even the strongest of us can get exhausted at times.
They get tired of doing everything for everyone all the time. Even when they are not in proper physical or mental health, everyone else expects them to carry out all the heavy load. It seems like the whole world expects them to do everything and never have a thought on the fact that these strong people also have a life and problems of their own. Just because they do things accurately that does not mean that they can always attend to everything with the same vigilance. They do need a break and some time to rest.
Even the strongest people need love and affection. They are not machines without any feelings or emotions. They also need someone to be there for them. In their worries and sadness, they too need a shoulder to cry on and someone that they can always rely on.
Sometimes, even the strongest people out there break down. When they have had enough of everything and when they feel like they can’t take it anymore, they will be done forever. They by then won’t have the strength to even drag themselves out of the bed and they will desperately look for someone to help them out in their misery. That is why even strong people must be given a break and should be looked after. Without knowing anyone’s true story we cannot judge whether they are truly strong or not just by looking at the external factors.
Sometimes, they might have become strong at the moment because of the things that they have undergone. Circumstances might have lead them here and now we should look beyond their mask and try to reach for the tender part within. We should help them out to resolve their inner worries and once they get that person who understands them, they will be happier and more successful in their lives.