Don’t let anyone tell you that love is hard. Because it is not. Love is not supposed to make you wonder about someone’s actions. Love is not supposed to be the thing that sends you to bed with tears. Love is not supposed to make you hate your life. Love is not supposed to make you suffer, to make you hate yourself.
Love is supposed to liberate you.
So why would you settle for anything less than real?
Why would you settle for something miserable, a life condemned to misery?
Why would you choose to spend your entire life being convinced that love is hard, that love is miserable?
Stay single until you find something real, something worth having. Stay single until you find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated.
You should not be with someone who treats you good and then expects you to pat on his shoulder and tell him that he is the best boyfriend. Someone who understands that playing hard to get is not the way to get you to fall in love.
You should be with someone who is ready to build a real relationship with you, someone who refuses to play games, someone who is past the fake, for-fun stuff.
You should be with someone who wants to get to know you both physically and emotionally. Someone who loves to listen to you, someone who loves to communicate with you, someone who loves to connect with you.
Stay single until you find someone who understands the simple fact that it takes two people to build a relationsh0ip. Someone who is ready to reciprocate what you do for him, someone who sees the worth of what you are doing. Someone who tries to protect what you two have.
Stay single until you find someone who shows his love for you. Someone who kisses you goodnight and tucks you into bed. Someone who cooks you your favorite meal, someone who makes you feel appreciated.
Stay single until you find someone who pursues you even after they have got you. Someone who knows how important that spark is, someone who puts in an effort every day.
Stay single until you find someone who makes you realize that love is beautiful, that love is not difficult.