Kids always grow up looking at their parents. no matter whether their parents are good or bad, kids will try to imitate them and learn their basic life lessons from the way their parents behave.
Billy Flynn Gadbois from Boston is a father and an ex-husband. For some reason, he had to be separated from his wife but he did not want his kids to miss their mom. So, on her birthday he decided to do something special for his ex-wife and the result was surprising.
He surprised her on her birthday with flowers, a loving birthday card and a breakfast that he made together with the children.
When he was questioned as in why he still does that, he replied that he is raising two little men and he needs to set the right example on how they should treat women. He believes that it will affect the way, the kids will see relationships in the future.
“So if you aren’t modeling good relationship behavior for your kids, get your sh*t together. Rise above it and be an example. This is bigger than you. Raise good men. Raise strong women. Please. The world needs them, now more than ever”, he finishes his post.
However, he mentioned that both he and his wife had to do many things before coming to this point. They had to control their anger and learn to overcome the resentment they had for each other and that wasn’t easy. However, they needed to do that for their children.
“We’ve worked hard over time to establish our boundaries and find ways to manage our interactions so our own issues are minimalized or left at home when it comes to the kids. It’s an ongoing process but you can see a huge difference in the happiness and confidence and security of the boys since we started working at it,” he concludes.
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