There’s nothing more amazing than two people falling in love with each other and eventually becoming a couple.
We all like it when our partners are vocal about our relationships. We love it when they say how much they love us, how much we mean to them. However, this is not the case all the time. Sometimes, we find that our partners are not that vocal about their feelings. And it scares us, right?
As it turns out, there is nothing to worry about. Even though they may not be articulating their feelings, there are ways to find out if they really love you. there are little telltale signs that indicate that they are falling head over heels, and the best part is, experts say that you can rely on these signs.
So if you think your significant other is not telling you how much they love you, take it easy! Here are the most important signs that your significant other loves you way too much even though they don’t say it out loud.
#1. They apologize a lot.
By apologizing a lot, they try to keep the peace in the relationship and that is a clear sign that they love you. “Extending the olive branch to make peace in your relationship shows one person may love the other a bit more,” explains Vikki Ziegler, a divorce attorney and relationship expert.
#2. Your partner always agrees with you.
If they agree with you, even when you’re wrong, it means that they really love you.
“This shows an undying loyalty that one person may be more in love and willing to be a bit dishonest just to protect the other person in the relationship,” she says.
#3. They make plans with you.
They always try to include you in their long term and short term plans. Couples therapist Theresa Herring, LMFT says:
“Checking in with you before making plans means that your partner is prioritizing the relationship, it also shows respect towards the other person and that their time and opinion is important.”
#4. They want to get to know you.
They want to get to know you as a person. They are curious about your personality, your life, and what is going on generally. And that is why they ask a lot of questions.
#5. They introduce you to their parents.
This is a sure sign that they love you. April Davis, founder, matchmaker, and dating coach of Luma confirms that:
“Your partner thinks it’s important for you to meet the most significant people in their life because you are important and they see a future with you.”
#6. They remember important details about you.
They remember the most insignificant, minute thing about you. As Herring says:
“Committed and invested partners tend to remember the little things and show that they care through gestures.”
#7. They always have time for you.
No matter how busy and tired they are, they always have time for you. If they clear up their schedules for you, then it is a clear sign that they love you.
#8. They might send you long texts.
“If your partner sends lengthier messages … I can guess that they are more into you than you are them,” certified counselor David Bennett says. “It’s a sign they’re excited to talk to you; you’re the person they’re thinking about.”
#9. They try to please you.
They always want to make you happy. They put an effort in comforting and pleasing you.
“Maybe they know you’ve had a long day, so dinner is waiting at home, or they pick you up and take you out so that you don’t have to worry about cooking,” author and lifestyle expert Jaya Myra explains.
#10. They are proud to have you in their life.
Bethany Ricciardi, sex educator and relationship expert with Too Timid “The Romance Company” says:
“I wouldn’t judge your relationship off of how many Facebook posts they publish of you, but just take note of whether or not they seem proud to have you on their arm or if they’re keeping things low-key in public.”