It’s Not Worth Putting Your Life On Hold For A Guy Who Isn’t Worth Your Time

By: Anuradha

When you find the right person in your life, you will never regret the choice that you made and you will never stop and think “Is this what I wanted in life” he will never wait for you to call or text him and will never make your life hard for you.

You would have excused for him in all these times, thinking how great he will be one day. You will think about his good qualities and you will try to deceive your heart by always telling yourself that he is the one. But, try to face the truth even if it is hard. Instead of thinking who he will be, look at who he is now.

Okay, stop and try to think about your relationship as an outside. If that is hard, then just think will you allow your daughter and best friend to have a relationship like this if their partners treat them in the same way your partner does? You know the truth for this answer. So, stop lying to yourself. Open your eyes to the reality and don’t let his words to affect your self-esteem and self-worth.

You may wonder whether he is your soulmate and whether things are supposed to be like this. But, the truth is that if he is your soulmate, then you will never suffer like this. At the end of the day, you will not feel gloomy and empty like this and you will never think back about the decision you made. so, if you honestly feel that this is not the guy for you, then let him go. That is the best thing that you can do and I’m sure you will never regret your decision even though it may hurt you initially.

Tap your heart and ask why you are still with him if this is not what you wanted. It might be for his enchanting words, his material possessions or anything. but the most important thing is that no matter what he has, will he be able to make you happy at the end of the day? Is this the man that you need your kids to say ‘Dad’?

You deserve to be happy and treat with the same intensity that you treat for the others. You need a love that will take your breath away and give you hopes for a happier day. Don’t settle for a relationship where you will be treated as a rotten meat for your whole life. Find the love that you truly dreamt of and then you will understand what is really meant by being in love.